Wahab ibn Munabih advices: "Distance yourself and honour yourself, raise yourself from the foolish and the ragid and those who are misguided and dont follow their mannerism be different from them and distinguish yourself from them and be noble and follow the mannerism of the ulma and the pious Muslims".
“And utilize those things which you have which Allah has blessed you with to aid those who are less than you. Whoever is deficient in a particular area than aid that individual until he reaches where you are. For indeed the hakim the wise one and the one who has wisdom is the one who uses what he is blessed with to give to the one who is less than him, he looks to the deficiencies of those who are weaker than him, those who are less than him and than he supports them until they reach where he is. He recognises that in that there is brakaha or ajaar (Reward). For indeed that may be your ticket to jannah".
Abdul Hakeem Bilal Davis sharah: That which you have which is extra or a surplus For example if you have that which is related to ilm, than aid those who have less ilm than you) or if you have been blessed with sustenance (rizq), aid those who have less than you, after taking care of your needs, spend it those who are less than you. Or if Allah swt has given you strength utilise that strength by helping those who need it, use that for indeed that may be your ticket to jannah. That maybe your path, that you excel in.
You may not be good at certin aspects of khayr but there may be an area which Allah swt has blessed you with. It may not necessarily be wealth or ilm
If you see someone who is less than you and deficient, give them aid support them don’t be full of glee and have no care for your brother or sister. For the best action is that which is consistent even if it small as the prophet (peace be upon him) said.
From a talk by Abdul Hakeem Bilal Davis called
The way of the salaf in maintaining the strength of imaan salafiaudio.com